So, in among the positive reviews for BLOOD TEARS there are
a handful of less than positive ones. So dry your eyes, no biggie. I’m fine
with it. You can’t please everybody and rare is the book that doesn’t attract
dissenting voices - a friend told me that To Kill a Mockingbird has over 20,000
1 star reviews on Goodreads. How’s that for perspective?
The thing is that now more than ever we live in a world of
opinions. A world where opinions are easily uploaded onto public forums so
everyone can read how we felt about something.
Which got me thinking.
I’ve always preferred to spread the love. If I enjoy
something I want everyone to know about it. I want that author to be read by
everyone. So, I’ll blog, tweet, FB, stop people on the street etc. But when I
don’t like something I keep it to myself. It’s hard enough for writers to get
an audience, why should I try and put someone off another writer’s hard work?
Just because it didn’t do it for me, doesn’t mean there’s not an audience for
it somewhere. My ego doesn’t demand that people sit up and PAY ATTENTION TO
WHAT I THINK.
Is that what it’s about? Feeding the ego? Some of these
people must have fearsome, hungry egos.
There’s one reviewer of BLOOD TEARS who has given it a 1
star on several review sites. That takes a lot of energy. She must have really
hated it. Who could be arsed to pop in and out of different web pages to say
the same thing again and again?
Growing up, I adopted the mantra, if I don’t have something
good to say, then say nothing. Seems the internet has bred into us a different
perspective. Just click on the comments thread of any newspaper article, sit
back and wonder at the vitriol some people are happy to spew.
Now, it seems everyone is a critic. But of course, criticism
is not a new thing. Those in the creative field have been complaining about
them for a long time ...
“Critics! Those cut-throat bandits in the paths of fame.” Robert
Burns
“Don’t pay any attention to the critics - don't even ignore
them”. Samuel Goldwyn
“If you have no critics you'll likely have no success.”
Malcolm X
“Nature, when she invented, manufactured, and patented her
authors, contrived to make critics out of the chips that were left.” Oliver
Wendell Holmes
“Pay no attention to what the
critics say; no statue has ever been put up to a critic.” Jean Sibelius
“When my time on earth is gone,
and my activities here are passed, I want they bury me upside down, and my
critics can kiss my ass!” Bobby Knight.
“As soon as you concern yourself
with the 'good' and 'bad' of your fellows, you create an opening in your heart
for maliciousness to enter. Testing, competing with, and criticizing others
weaken and defeat you.” Morihei Ueshiba
Want to share your favourite
quote about critics?
